fix WAF detection mode and payload logging

- DetectionOnly mode: add SecAction to set anomaly score thresholds to
  9999999 so rule 949110/980130 never fires; works around coraza-caddy
  bug where is_interrupted=true still causes a 403 in detection mode
- Switch SecAuditEngine back to On (from RelevantOnly) so DetectionOnly
  hits are captured, now safe because body parts are excluded
- SecAuditLogParts: ABIJDEFHZ → ABFHZ, dropping request body (I),
  multipart files (J), intermediate response headers (D), and response
  body (E) — prevents multi-MB payloads being written to audit log
- Parser: store both blocked and detected events; filter on rule matched
  OR is_interrupted instead of is_interrupted only
- Add blocked column to waf_events (migration 0014); existing rows
  default to blocked=true
- WAF Events UI: Blocked/Detected chip in table and drawer header
- Fix misleading help text that said to use Detection Only to observe
  traffic before blocking

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/lib/db/schema.ts

@@ -261,6 +261,7 @@ export const wafEvents = sqliteTable(
     ruleMessage: text('rule_message'),
     severity: text('severity'),
     rawData: text('raw_data'),
+    blocked: integer('blocked', { mode: 'boolean' }).notNull().default(true),
   },
   (table) => ({
     tsIdx: index('idx_waf_events_ts').on(table.ts),