feat: implement comprehensive test optimization

- Add gotestsum for real-time test progress visibility
- Parallelize 174 tests across 14 files for faster execution
- Add -short mode support skipping 21 heavy integration tests
- Create testutil/db.go helper for future transaction rollbacks
- Fix data race in notification_service_test.go
- Fix 4 CrowdSec LAPI test failures with permissive validator

Performance improvements:
- Tests now run in parallel (174 tests with t.Parallel())
- Quick feedback loop via -short mode
- Zero race conditions detected
- Coverage maintained at 87.7%

Closes test optimization initiative

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